How "intimate payment" entered our life scene seems to be impossible to verify, but the impact of intimate payment on us is very clear.
A woman complained on the Internet that her boyfriend earned 20,000 yuan a month but only gave her a secret payment of 2,000 yuan. She was very happy at first, but she was very disappointed to hear that her brother-in-law earned 8,000 yuan a month before she got married, but she was able to give her sister a secret payment of 5,000 yuan.
She said that she didn’t have to spend his money to earn 10,000 yuan. She just hoped that her boyfriend would be willing to pay more for her. And her boyfriend thinks her logic is wrong. Since she doesn’t need to spend this money, why should she give her so much? 2000 is a quota given by him after careful consideration, which can cover her basic expenses. For example, he also said that he gave his father a secret payment, but his father never used it once.
There may be different logics to look at this problem with different genders, but obviously, intimate payment was originally a lubricant, which was used to express love. From the design concept of this product, there is no requirement to measure intimacy with more money and less money, but the reason why someone